laurie frankel this is how it always is review

There's no point in winning if we're not doing identity politics. Danica Roem stood up for diversity and inclusion and celebrated differences and level playing fields and, yes, transgender people in the face of an incumbent who was literally running on the identity of being a homophobe (his word). And when one's identity is politicized, representing in all arenas, including politics, could not be more important.

Remember when that one was revelatory?) When one's identity is politicized, that identity becomes political. A lot have said it's distracting or it's not time or it's divisive. And two: transgender people can be anything transwomen can win you too can and will and must go forth and make the world a better place.Ī lot of people on our side have been bemoaning this year what's loosely termed identity politics. One, for the first time in a year, was this: the world may not yet be ending people may yet be loving and smart and broadminded and fair all is not lost good is still coming. I was able to implicitly and effortlessly and crystal-clearly make two points to my daughter this morning.

She also wondered whether Danica Roem's mother was more gentle than hers with her long hair, tangles being a political scourge this country has yet to come to terms with. Also the news that Democrats of color, like her, had been voted into office all over the country. Also the news that a gay woman had been elected to be her city's mayor. This morning I woke her up with this picture of Danica Roem, newly elected Virginia state legislator and transwoman. She goes to an elementary school whose motto is 'kind, safe, and fair,' so she was in no way prepared for the outcome of that election. Like so, so many of us, she was appalled, afraid, angry, and at a total loss. And when I told her why, pissed wasn't the half of it. 'Wake me when Hillary wins,' she said, and I promised to do so, so when I came in the next morning, she was pissed. A year ago tonight I made my kid go to bed, election returns only beginning to come in, because we live on the west coast and small humans cannot stay up until the end when there is school in the morning.

Laurie frankel this is how it always is review